Biggest Pain. !!

What exactly is the biggest pain ?

The biggest pain is non other than loosing those people who were considered to be the closest soul to you. Seeing them behaving like strangers. Recalling their memories.Trying to delete their entire role from your mind,what they had played and pretending that everything has been finished and ended up.But only you know that the moments what you have shared were not just ordinary moments. Moments when laced with the feelings,care and love becomes the memory and memories can not be forgotten so easily.
And it becomes more tough, if you are a true kind heated person. If you give more priority to feelings, to emotions, to the bonding you will be more hurted.

Do they care about you ?

No, No one cares. In this artificial world there is no value of the feelings or emotions. Or even the promises. Promises are made in the first second and in just the other second they are broken. As the people meets another better person than you, you are no longer important to them. They say , all those memories that you shared, all those moments what you lived and every emotions what you had was past. They say, be practical. And you like people who do not understand these modern technique of establishing relations and breaking up when needed, gets hurted the most.

How to overcome this ??

No one can harm or hurt you , expect you yourself is what Mahatma Gandhi said.

Life is like a mirror smile at it.

Man is mortal.

Free yourself from attachments.

What was meant to be , was meant to be and well what was not , was not.

Don’t worry about what has happened in your life.

Stand firm and be strong , you have to repair that broken , injured heart of yours.

• Try to socialize more , make more friends both men and women.
• Try to work even harder at your workplace or anywhere - put in all the negative energy into working in your office.
• Don’t keep yourself idle - an idle mind is a devil’s workshop.
• Don’t simply sulk all the time - fight it- fight your emotionsand get control over the situation.
• Try to surround yourself with happy and positive people.
• Use those faces as your motivation.Whenever you feel like you are tired, you are bored up with the job or whatever you are doing always remember , when you will meet that person in future you have to realise that what they did was wrong to them.And you do not have to say anything to them at that time.You just have to make them realise through your success.
• Change everything.Change your habit, change your personality, change your attitude and most importantly change your destiny.
• Be a beast.Always work like a crazy guy who is born to be Champion. As you will be successful, everything will start being better and you will not have to try to forget anyone. You will meet more better people, more beautiful faces.
• Till then wait and work.