Love or Attraction ??

     How you come to know that

     you are in true love !!!!!

In the era of attraction, instant hook ups, dating and break up , there are a lot of people who are innocent by heart. They don’t know  that the feelings that they went through was whether  a love or merely attraction. They dwell between the two. And indeed it is one of the most difficult task to find out. How anyone can know whether the feeling he or she is going through is love or merely attraction ???

So, here is your answer.

When your heart selects anyone, when you start remembering he/she at each and every moment, if you go to some good places, see good things one thoughts always come to your mind “KASH WO YAHA HOTI / HOTA”.

When your heart wants to spend the precious moment of your life with her, When any friend of yours praise her beauty and your blood boils with anger, when you have to go to meet her in the scorching sun or freezing cold and you just step out of your home without thinking anything , it means that you are in true love.

There is a difference of hair line between the true love and attraction. I would like to add one incident overhere which will make the difference much clear. I had asked the same difference to our vice principal at St. Johns Ranchi in class 10^th , when he was teaching us about Albert Einstein. Albert Einstein  once had given this example to make understand the concept of time dilation that “ if you are waiting for your love, each seconds passing seems to be one hour and if you are with love even one hour seems to be one second ”.

Our vice principal sir had given the excellent answer that day.

He said, “If you are having that person in front of you whom you think is your love, and there are few more people over there , who are more beautiful/ handsome, more smart, more deserving, more talented but you select that particular person without even thinking for a second then it’s a true love, not an attraction. If you start feeling that her each problem, each pain , every sorrow as your own and you want to include her in every precious moment of your life Then you are in true love ”.